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Men... what the hell?

Post  CrimsonWings on Mon Sep 14, 2009 11:31 am

Sooo... men can be total jerks, and I just don't understand them. 'nuff said.

I had an awful summer dealing with this ex of mine, so I said to hell with guys, I'm gonna be a strong, independant woman. Well I met this guy a few weeks ago, and we went out and had an amazing time. He said he was into me as much as I was with him. We made plans to hang out again.. but then he started gettin a bit flaky, rearranging plans over and over, then not responding to texts for hours. Then when I got a little peeved and expressed to him that I've been really screwed over by guys and didn't want that trend to continue, he exclaimed that he thought it best we just be friends. I guess I just wasn't worth the effort... >.<

So wtf? Why are men such pigs at times? Like, how can someone be so inconsiderate?
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Post  KaibaGirl007 on Fri Sep 18, 2009 4:18 am

Oh what a jerk! I'm so sorry he messed you around like that. *cwtch*

Unfortunately even the best of men can be inconsiderate at times, it's just the way they are. Don't let it get you down. Eventually you'll find a guy who's right for you. Wink

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Post  frenchsnake on Fri Sep 18, 2009 9:44 am

Meep! I think it's not just men, but all people who are like that -- still, men do seem to lack a good bit of common sense quite a lot *rolls eyes* For one thing, I have this friend who I was mad at for quite a while because he dumped another of our friends right before a big dance, saying that he "was planning on breaking up with her anyway and going to the dance with her would have been a lie". He wasn't malicious, just stupid about it. I mean, he had invited her to the dance himself weeks beforehand, and she already had an expensive dress and everything, but he thought he was doing the right thing.

So anyway, I say hang in there, and I'm sure one day you'll find someone who has a good heart under it all and a stupidity level you can work with Wink

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Post  CrimsonWings on Sat Sep 19, 2009 8:30 am

Yeah he came back and said "well ya know, I just don't have time for a girlfriend right now." even though he was the one who initiated the heavy flirting. Then he's like "well yeah, I'm a huge flirt to everyone." So I'm just like, oh gee thanks, nothin special about me. >.<

But yeah.. I'm trying to not worry about guys for a while. I've pretty much had a boyfriend for the past 3 years (two separate guys), I should take a break for a while and enjoy single life! lol
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Post  Spyke on Sat Sep 19, 2009 9:10 am

Avoiding the relationship scene can possibly be a good idea, if a chance comes I suppose its good to take it but I've never had that chance lol.

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Post  CrimsonWings on Sat Sep 19, 2009 9:24 am

Haha Spyke, you gotta go for it and put yourself out there. Come on, rock star, ask one of those hot groupies out! xP
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Post  Spyke on Sat Sep 19, 2009 9:25 am

Once I get a band sorted outside the college I'll manage to get some groupies!!!!! geek

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Post  CrimsonWings on Sat Sep 19, 2009 9:32 am

Woo! I'll come over there and be a groupie! I have some hot friends I can bring along with me. lol =P
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Post  Spyke on Sat Sep 19, 2009 9:37 am

You'll need to learn to bitch about the weather on an everyday basis if you're gonna come and groupie in England!

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Post  CrimsonWings on Sat Sep 19, 2009 9:46 am

Hah! I'm from Cleveland! Bitching about the weather is what we do best!! xD
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Post  Spyke on Sat Sep 19, 2009 9:50 am

Haha!! That's you sorted then!

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Post  CrimsonWings on Sat Sep 19, 2009 10:11 am

lol sweet! I'm on my way. Hopefully british men are better than american. xD
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